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Rooted in Gottman's Lessons in Love and social psychology. Choose the group that fits where you are.
Dating is easier when you know what healthy love actually looks like. A research-based workshop from The Gottman Institute. Learn skills that strengthen not only romantic relationships, but the way you communicate, connect, resolve conflict, and build trust with friends, family, coworkers, and others.
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Small-group coaching for couples building deeper friendship, repair, and shared meaning. COMING SOON.
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Group coaching for romantic and everyday relationships — family, friendships, and co-workers.
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"An unconventional path to relationship work."
I didn't arrive at relationship work through a straight line.
My path has taken me through psychology, integrative health, technology, psychoeducational teaching, and now graduate clinical training in psychotherapy. But one question has followed me throughout much of my life: How can I help people feel better from the inside out — and build more fulfilling, connected, whole lives?
Ground and Connect Me grew from that question. It brings together what I've learned about physical and emotional wellbeing, human behavior, attraction, relationships, and connection — because the pieces of a good life rarely exist in isolation.
Psychology, relationship science, integrative health, nervous-system education, and graduate clinical training.
MSW Candidate
B.A. in Psychology
Social Psychology of Attraction and Relationships
The Gottman Seven Principles for Singles — Lessons in Love Leader
Level 1 Clinical Training — Gottman Method Couples Therapy
Integrative Health Practitioner
Polyvagal Theory: Principles and Practice
MSW Candidate
B.A. in Psychology
Social Psychology of Attraction and Relationships
The Gottman Seven Principles for Singles — Lessons in Love Leader
Level 1 Clinical Training — Gottman Method Couples Therapy
Integrative Health Practitioner
Polyvagal Theory: Principles and Practice
Pick whichever one calls you today.
Dating with intention, red flags, and building readiness.
Communication, conflict repair, and lasting friendship.
The science of belonging and finding your people.
How the body and mind carry your relationships.
Food, blood sugar, and the mood you bring to people.
The most underrated relationship skill there is.
Attention practices that settle the nervous system.
Movement as mood regulation, not punishment.
Meditation audio plus downloadable reference resources.
A curated starter path — where to begin today.
A library of guided practices designed to help your nervous system settle, soften, and build real resilience — the way a tree grows: slowly, deeply, and from the roots up.
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Singles & Dating Tips
Attachment theory is everywhere in relationship content right now. Here's what's solid, what's contested, and how the four styles actually work.
Couples & Relationship Advice
Attachment theory is everywhere in relationship content right now. Here's what's solid, what's contested, and how the four styles actually work.
Psychology & Connection
The research on pets and loneliness is genuinely encouraging, and genuinely more complicated than "get a dog and you'll feel better."
Mental Health & Wellness
The science on alcohol got less forgiving over the past decade. Here is the straight version, including where a glass of wine still fits.
Singles & Dating Tips
Not every uncomfortable moment is a warning sign, and not every warning sign feels dramatic. Here's how to actually tell them apart.
Couples & Relationship Advice
Your body has a specific, measurable point where a hard conversation stops being a conversation. Here's what's actually happening, and what helps.
Psychology & Connection
Why the U.S. Surgeon General called disconnection a national health emergency, and what it means for you.
Mental Health & Wellness
Almost all food is processed to some degree. Here's the line that actually matters, and which side of it your mood is on.
Singles & Dating Tips
There's a real, researched answer to this question, and it's more reassuring than you'd expect.
Couples & Relationship Advice
Comfortable with closeness, comfortable alone. Here's the pattern, where it comes from, and why it's reachable even if you didn't start there.
Psychology & Connection
A landmark body of research puts a number on something most people feel but never quantify: connection keeps you alive longer.
Mental Health & Wellness
You already know food affects your body. It also affects your mood, and your mood walks straight into your relationships.
Singles & Dating Tips
The quality that drew you in might be exactly what drove you apart, and your brain treats the aftermath like withdrawal for a reason.
Couples & Relationship Advice
The pattern, where it comes from, why it pairs so predictably with avoidance, and how it changes.
Psychology & Connection
"Just put yourself out there" isn't backed by evidence. Here's what the research says works instead.
Mental Health & Wellness
No supplements, no equipment, just movement, and the research behind why it works on your blood sugar, your sleep, and your nervous system.
Singles & Dating Tips
The goal isn't to become more outgoing. It's to find settings where just showing up repeatedly does the work for you.
Couples & Relationship Advice
Self-sufficiency looks like strength from the outside. Here's what's actually happening underneath, and what changes it.
Psychology & Connection
It's not money, fame, or career success. Harvard's longest-running study points somewhere else entirely.
Mental Health & Wellness
Forget 21 days. Here's what the actual studies show about starting small, making it easy, and what to do when you inevitably miss a day.
Singles & Dating Tips
Apps didn't kill in-person connection, they just replaced the everyday spaces where it used to happen by accident. Here's how to rebuild those spaces on purpose.
Couples & Relationship Advice
The most internally contradictory of the four styles, and the one most connected to early trauma. Here's what it is and what actually helps.
Mental Health & Wellness
Carbohydrates affect sleep through the same tryptophan pathway that affects mood, but timing changes everything.
Couples & Relationship Advice
These three get lumped together constantly, but they're built differently, regulated differently, and good for different problems.
Mental Health & Wellness
It's the simplest intervention on this entire site, and the evidence behind it spans mood, cognition, sleep quality, and how fast your body actually ages.
Couples & Relationship Advice
How an apartment lab, a mathematician's obsession with data, and one clinical psychologist's real-world experience became the most cited body of relationship research in the field.
Mental Health & Wellness
The brain changes behind mindfulness are real and measurable, and you don't need a silent retreat to access them.
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